Follow Me

 October 30 is the feast day of St. Andrew, the apostle.  Jesus said to him “follow me.”  Then Andrew went to his brother Peter and said “We have found the Messiah, that is to say, the Christ.”  It doesn’t say that Peter believed him immediately, but Andrew brought him to Jesus “to learn everything for himself.”  They both became disciples, which are committed followers; they followed to learn from The Teacher.
In today’s Office of Readings was a sermon by St. Augustine.  I have these words underlined in my book:

Let us sing alleluia here on earth, while we still live in anxiety, so that we may  sing it one day in heaven in full security.  Why do we now live in anxiety?  Can   you expect me not to feel anxious when there are so many temptations here below that prayer itself reminds us of them, when we say: Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us?  Every day we make our petition; every day we sin.  Do you want me to feel secure when I am daily asking pardon for my sins, and requesting help in time of trial? … Deliver us from evil:  And yes, brothers, while we are still in the midst of this evil, let us sing alleluia to the good God who delivers us from evil.

Scripture does not say that he will not allow you to be tried, but that he will not allow you to be tried beyond your strength.  You have entered upon a time of trial but you will come to no harm --- God’s help will bring you through it safely.  You are like a piece of pottery, shaped by instruction, fired by tribulation.  When you are put into the over therefore, keep your thoughts on the time when you will be taken out again; for God is faithful, and He will guard both your going in and your coming out.

Keep on making progress.  This progress, however, must be in virtue, for there  are some, the Apostle warns, whose only progress is in vice.  Sing then, but keep going.

And then I read this short reflection by Mother Teresa of Calcutta (in Love, A Fruit Always in Season):

God is the friend of silence.  We need to find God, but we cannot find Him in noise, in excitement.  See how nature, the trees, the flowers, the grass grow in deep silence.  See how the stars, the moon and the sun move in silence.
The more we receive in our silent prayer, the more we can give in our active life.  Silence gives us a new way at looking at everything.  We need this silence in order to touch souls.  The essential thing is not what we say, but what God says to us and what He says through us.

These works I read all spoke to me of my making progress in my relationship with Jesus.  You don’t immediately become friends with anyone, nor do you get to know them if you are focused on events of the world or your own concerns (like Peter’s fishing).   He said: “Follow Me.”  The disciples don’t tell Jesus what to do.  They listen.  They try to understand what He is teaching.  And, Mother Teresa reminds us that today, we listen and ponder His word, but also all His creation.  Through all these things He speaks; we listen.
“Follow Me”

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And sometimes I listen to Him through my friends.  So today I put up my Christmas tree as they insisted (and most of the ornaments).  It doesn’t seem to mean as much to me, nor some ornaments on it from friends in the 1980’s.  But others see it also, and like it or not, it sets a tone around me which I can’t ignore, kind of like silence.  It’s the world’s problems I need to ignore.  It is surprising how many people have stopped watching television, and how many are turning off their phones --- even if only to pray in silence.  Walmart got rid of the children’s sex toys from its stores, and dropped sex mandates from their suppliers.  A radical agenda quickly overtook our country and our culture, perhaps it is slowly turning.  
And perhaps next Thanksgiving children will again come to be with their parents to celebrate and give thanks.

Alone at Thanksgiving

In the years since Covid started, I no longer travel a long distance to spend Thanksgiving with my nieces.  I have no nearby relatives, so on Thanksgiving (and Christmas and Easter) I make dinner for myself (with lots of leftovers).  I usually make plates for the nearby 7-11 employees who must work holidays.  Many friends have invited me to share the holiday with their family gatherings, but I feel as someone interrupting their time together.  I don’t want to do that, so I eat alone those days.
 

But not this year.
 

Three friends, each of whom has family, will be alone this Thanksgiving.  Their families are traveling to other far-flung relatives, so we will gather, together as friends for Thanksgiving dinner.  In a way, we are the leftovers.
 

In my spiritual readings and prayers of late, I’ve noticed an emphasis on silence, time with God --- personal time, but I’ve also noticed the emphasis on community.  Whether the Trinity, or church, or family, Jesus strongly promotes community, unique close friends who you feel comfortable being with, and praying with --- and making Jesus part of that community.
 

When I was celebrating Thanksgiving alone, I never thought about any others who may be spending that day alone.  While I thought I was being “nice” by not being the “odd egg” at nearby friends’ gatherings, I rarely thought about those who needed my presence --- not just my Thanksgiving donation of food or money to some charity.  They --- and I --- need community.  Jesus said so.
 

So, this Thanksgiving I will be gathering together with friends and giving thanks for God’s many blessings.  We need to be together.  We need to say those words of thanks together.  We need to hear those words said aloud by others.
 

This Christmas I don’t doubt my Thanksgiving dinner friends will be celebrating Christmas Day with family, so I will find some others who would be alone that day.  And together, we will celebrate and give thanks for the biggest event that ever happened in the world.  How could you not want to go out and celebrate it with the world?  Look what God has done for us!
 

We are never alone, and we should not act as if we are.
 

Serenity

 On my way to church Saturday morning, a car began closely tailgating me.  And after a few moments, I did what I sometimes find myself doing:  I sped up --- a lot.  At some point all tailgaters realize how far over the speed limit they are, and let me pull away.  I take some weird satisfaction in that.  I don’t thank God that no cop was around, because I suspect God doesn’t approve of my actions, or thoughts.  And on Saturday morning, I happened to notice the tailgater behind me turned into a housing complex; he likely was going home.
 

At mass, the monsignor was assisted by a young altar boy, or perhaps it is better said that HE assisted the young altar boy.  I’m not sure the boy did anything right or timely, but the monsignor quietly corrected him or motioned what he should be doing to assist at mass.  Then as mass ended and before the monsignor left the altar, he faced us and, pointing at the young altar boy, said: “This is (a name mentioned), and today was his first going solo as an altar boy.  Let’s give him an applause.”  And loud clapping followed.  It was a touching moment.
 

It was only later on, as I listened to the radio, that the morning events again came to mind.  The radio speaker said: “Time with Jesus is serenity.  No serenity, no Jesus.”  And my thought went to my reaction to the tailgater this morning --- no serenity there.  Even before speeding to break the tailgating, my serenity was broken.  I don’t remember what I was thinking before I saw the tailgater, perhaps I was even praying, but then my serenity broke.  And no serenity, no Jesus.
 

I never equated the events before, but I used to be irritated at people in front of me going way under the speed limit --- you can guess my thoughts, words and actions.  Then, within a short period of days, Jesus showed me that my forced slow driving may have saved me from a terrible accident.  After that, I began not cursing, but praying for any very slow driver in front of me.  Perhaps they were taking someone to the hospital, or just heard some horrible news of such a thing, or maybe even that they were drunk, and slow driving was a good thing.  Prayer is my now normal reaction to a very slow driver I can’t pass.
 

Why can’t I think that way about tailgaters?  Instead, I let their possible sin lead, me to sin.  It will take some effort, but I shall try to pray for those tailgaters who irritate me in the future.  I will keep my serenity, and serenity is time with Jesus.  The monsignor also showed me that serenity this morning.  And what do you find yourself getting irritated about?  Try staying calm and praying for them.  I know doing this will take some effort, but all good things take effort --- and practice.
 

And if you have even one successful effort, talk to Jesus about it.  He’d be interested to discuss it in prayer, and serenely reply to you.

It's All About Us

Driving Westward toward the church for morning mass this morn, I once again saw the beauty of God’s Light, as the passing road and buildings around me were still shadowy, yet the top half of the trees in front of me were brilliantly lit by the rising sun behind me.  I said a prayer, then, for the beauty of creation, and the gift of my life.

The words of my subsequent Morning Prayers, the mass and the monsignor’s sermon, all seemed to naturally flow with those earlier feelings.  When it came the time for communion, I watched as row after row of people joined the center aisle communion line.  I was the only person in my pew, and as the last person from the pew in front of me joined the center line, suddenly a young boy came up and entered the center aisle line in front of me.  There were two communion lines and, (I assumed) his mother was in the other line holding a baby.  The young boy in front of me held a plastic animal character in each hand, and as the line moved forward, he had each of his animals walk on the pew edge in front of him.  When he reached the front of the communion line, the monsignor blessed the young boy, who then held up his two arms, and the monsignor blessed each of the animal characters he held.  And in my heart, I felt a deep joy: this is how He loves His little children.  And receiving communion myself, I felt strongly God’s love for me too.

Back in my pew, I gave Him praise and thanksgiving.  Then, I picked up a card containing the Prayer After Holy Communion, as composed by Padre Pio, and there I read:  Stay with me, Lord, for You are my life and without You I am without fervor.  Stay with me, Lord, for You are my Light, and without You I am in darkness.  And at that moment the rising sun began shining through the church window, directly on my face.  In the sun’s brightness I could no longer see the prayer card I held, but I knew there was nothing else to be said in prayer, and so I just listened.

Driving home from mass, the Catholic radio station was playing Deacon Tom Lowe’s Notes From Above music show.  And Deacon Tom said: “And this next tune was played at Al Kresta’s funeral (the station’s founder and a very beloved man).  It is titled Gratitude, and is sung by Brandon Lake:” It begins:

All my words fall short
I got nothing new
How could I express
All my gratitude.

 
I could sing these songs
As I often do
But every song must end
And You never do.

 
So I throw up my hands
And praise You again and again
‘Cause all that I have is a hallelujah
Hallelujah
And I know it’s not much
But I’ve got nothing else fit for a King
Except for a heart singing hallelujah
Hallelujah.

So many things to be grateful for at the start of this day, the blessings of the past, the blessings I see all around me this day, and (I am sure) the glorious blessings of the future.  Why focus on the bad and the darkness?  The Light is all about us --- not “about us” as in I’m so important, it’s all about me, but rather “about us”, as in It’s everywhere!! How can we not see the goodness, the never-ending Love of God all around us??  It’s ALL ABOUT us.