There is an interesting historical parable about
vanity. In Vienna the emperors of the
Austro-Hungarian Empire are buried in a Capuchin friary. I suppose it was considered the humblest
place to be buried. The funeral procession
would go from St. Vitus Cathedral down to the Capuchins. The grand duke would ceremoniously knock on
the locked doors of the friary. A little
window would open and the superior would say: “Who is it?” The duke would answer something like this: “Franz
Joseph, emperor of the Holy Roman Empire, king of Hungary, margrave of such and
such.” The superior would say, “We don’t
know him.” So, he’d knock again. “Who is there?” “Franz Joseph, his most Catholic imperial
majesty, elector of the Pope, etc.” The
answer would come again, “We don’t know him.”
The duke would knock a third time and the superior would say, “Who is
there?” Then the grand duke would say, “Franz
Joseph, a wretched sinner who seeks a place to lay his bones.” Then the door would open. Only in death do some of us face the need to
divest ourselves of the world’s vanity.
It would be wonderful if we could get over our sensitivities sooner.
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Quiet Moments, by Fr. Benedict Groeschel, chapter 27
In our lockdown for fear of spreading disease, we have lots
of time this Advent. I and others I know
have chosen to pull books off our bookshelves, ones with lots of underlines in,
to read and learn again things we thought important, but have since
forgotten. The book by Fr. Groeschel has
120 short stories like the one above, easy reading.
In the one above, we see humility chosen in death. I meditated some on humility after reading it. I say the humility prayer each night; it is a
prayer to accept being humbled, something hard to do --- but I’m getting
better. But there is another side to
humility. It is one thing to accept
being humbled, by things beyond our control like this virus (or death), but it
is another thing to choose humility, like St Francis whose feast day is
today. He chose a humble, simple, life
and to live among the poor.
I recently heard of someone thinking about downsizing their
home, moving to a smaller home in their old age for various reasons you can
guess. The reasons are benefits to them of
moving to a smaller living space. It
reminded me of one time long ago when I was welcoming new people into our
parish, and often when I visited the young new-comers I found them in a huge
house with little to no furniture. They
could afford the house, but not the furnishings ---yet. They wanted the grand size and style because
they thought they deserved it, kind of like the grand duke above thought he
deserved great honors, even in death.
Wouldst that those young people I visited chose humility and bought a small
(furnished) hut, which is all they needed, and found those who had more need of
their other monies than themselves.
Very few people choose humility, as Jesus did. Yet, that is one of the examples of how to
live that He became a man to show us.
Rather than focusing on Himself, He chose to love others. That’s the example of His whole life, and what
He set before us. He said His pathway is
narrow ---- certainly not fit for someone thinking himself deserving the riches
of a king.
It’s something to think about this Advent, when we have so
much time available.
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The mass readings in recent weeks have been telling us to
prepare for His coming. Many reflect on
this in consideration of Christmas, Christ’s birth. But the readings also were referring to His
coming again. They tell us to be
prepared. Some of my Zoom meeting groups
discussed that. Often the discussion
wandered to things that need to be done in preparation for our death, like
wills and legal papers, “my bucket list” of places I still want to go and
things I still want to do, and a few spoke of going to some people to ask
forgiveness, or to a long-loved one and saying something perhaps understood but
rarely said: “I love you.” Few, however, would say they were prepared
should Jesus come now, today. And we
discussed why not, and how we might become better prepared. In general, we agreed that we would be better
prepared if we knew Him better, and He knew us better --- if we prayed more,
with the end in mind. Jesus isn’t just
someone in heaven, He is someone we will meet, perhaps very soon. Advent might be a good time to prepare for
His coming, to really prepare, to get to know Him better.
And with our end and that meeting in mind, can we choose to
be humble as He showed us, now?
What will He say when we knock?